Stay Awake!

This morning’s reading, in Rron’s freezing tuk-tuk at 6.40am, was Mark 13:

“But concerning that day or that hour, no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father. Be on guard, keep awake. For you do not know when the time will come.

It is like a man going on a journey, when he leaves home and puts his servants in charge, each with his work, and commands the doorkeeper to stay awake. Therefore stay awake—for you do not know when the master of the house will come, in the evening, or at midnight, or when the rooster crows, or in the morning— lest he come suddenly and find you asleep.

And what I say to you I say to all: Stay awake.”

The Krama

The humble Krama is a simple piece of material for which the ingenious Khmer have found a myriad uses.

Tom has to give a talk about Krama next week, so we investigated some of its timeless solutions to everyday needs, as well as exploring some new uses for the 21st century.

quoteThe Krama is a bit of cloth. Not at all exciting – just like every other bit of cotton in the world. Sure, it’s got a lovely chequered pattern in either red or blue, but that’s really just decoration.

It’s only good features are: you can use it as a sling to carry your baby, or carry your pigs/chickens/ducks to market. You can wear it as a belt, apron or sarong/man-skirt – or keep the baking Cambodian sun off your head. You can twist it and wrap it around your head to carry heavy loads, make a yoke-pad for your shoulder, or use it as a hammock to soothe a crying baby. It can be folded into a shopping bag, or act as a pillow case or bed cover. On cold season mornings a tuk tuk ride feels very chilly – but not if you hang your Krama up as a windbreak, or wrap it around your neck as a scarf!

But that’s not the best part. The reason I bring it in is that it is found nowhere else in the world – it is unique to Cambodia and is its national symbol.

So, there you have it, ladies and gentlemen, the Krama!

A double-length Krama hammock.


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This old woman’s Krama keeps the sun off her head.


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iPad stand.


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Hands-free coffee and iPad.


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Scottish kilts go back to the 1600s, but the Cambodian krama-skirt was worn by “every man or woman” at least as far back as the 13th century.


Iced Custard

Our first proper home-cooked roast dinner in Phnom Penh was worth waiting for. Cath made jelly to go with the fruit salad, but I fancied some chilled custard on mine…

1 tbsp custard powder
1 tbsp sugar
1 cup milk powder
1 cup water
1 cup ice

In saucepan, mix dry ingredients to a paste with 1 tbsp of the water.

Heat gently, gradually add remaining water.

Turn off heat, stir in ice.

Serve with fresh fruit and strawberry jelly.

Ilkley Moorbodia

Tom, Matt and John headed north of the new school on their bikes to explore ‘the unknown country’ – and found a n open, grassy landscape not dissimilar to lots of places in Yorkshire, albeit flatter, hotter, and with more date palms.

Very happy.

High Wire Tom

Tom spinning like an astronaut.

With Lauren and Matt away at Epic we took Tom to the new Science Gallery at Kids’ City. He experienced astronaut motion sickness on the Human Gyroscope, augmented reality in the Space Dome, and rode a bicycle across a high wire.

Christmas Review 2014

We have now been in Cambodia for five months – and what an amazing time it’s been! As we enjoy a Christmas break we look back and see all God has done in our lives since we arrived.

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Christmas Eve curry at “Flavors of India”

Settling into a new school with different routines and people has consumed most of our attention since we arrived. We have all been on a steep learning curve, not least of which was learning about 90 new student names for both John and I. We have just been amazed at how we have come 6000 miles to a different culture and yet because of the unity of the Church, we feel completely at home with all the people here. We have the same purpose and focus as BCS but with aircon rather than heaters in the classroom. The aircon gets the classrooms down to about 26℃ which feels wonderful compared to 32℃ / 80% humidity outside.

A different class leads each Friday assembly.

A different class leads each Friday assembly. The purpose of the school here is to serve missionary families by providing a God-centred education that is international in range and quality, so they don’t feel they have to choose between their calling and their children’s education. The vision of the school is ‘global-minded servant-leaders with a biblical understanding and application of knowledge, impacting the world for Christ’.

We are very blessed to have students with a great attitude to their education. Every day starts with staff prayers (at 7am!) and in September we have FLAG week (Forever Learning About God) where the whole school starts each day with worship and has teaching from different speakers. The parents involved in Christian work put on a Mission Fair to help students understand about the important work they do and to give them the opportunity to volunteer to help in various ways.

Lauren has started the International Baccalaureate programme here studying English, History and Biology at higher level and Spanish, Maths and Geography at standard level. She also studies Theory of Knowledge, Christian Perspectives and part of the IB is a component called Creative Action Service which requires her to log an average of 2 hours a week over 2 years of appropriate projects in the community.

Matt has found a small group of like-minded friends here and has a good social life centred around the church youth group. He and Lauren are about to go on the youth conference in the New Year. He also has to choose some ‘Vision In Action’ projects in the community and so has been teaching students in primary school how to code.

Tom is currently in his last year of primary school and so is on a different site to the rest of us. As John and I have to start an hour before the children this was going to be a difficulty for us but new friends Paul and Jenny from Australia stepped in and have been taking Tom to school for us for this last semester. He has been having weekly swimming lessons in the pool next to school and is now a confident swimmer (though underwater swimming is his speciality apparently). Both school buildings have a library, if we ever want to track Tom down we just need to look for his sandals outside the library door.

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We should be moving into the new HOPE North site in March 2015.

Work on the new HOPE North school is going well. After a few days staying with the amazing Prothero family we moved into a house nearby. The Wilkins family had returned to the U.S. for 6 months so we rented their house from them. It provided us with a base while we thought about a more long term home. As the school is relocating to the North of the city in March we decided to move straight there, so a week before Christmas we moved into a brand new house just 1km from the new school.

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Open spaces and greenery will make a welcome change from the chaos of built-up Phnom Penh.

This whole area was swamp and fields a year ago with a couple of unmade roads and local houses. It has been earmarked for development and is now a bustling community of housing and markets. We have 5 weeks of travelling to the old site until the school moves but we very much like our new location. The streets are quiet enough in terms of traffic for the boys to cycle down to the market and local shops for us. The streets are not quiet in the volume sense though. It is wedding season and weddings are celebrated in marquees put up outside houses, often blocking roads, the festivities go on for about 24 hours with loud music and Buddhist chanting through loudspeakers from 4am!

The quiet, open streets of Borey New World.
The quiet, open streets of Borey New World.

Before we moved we experienced the wet season and flooding. It is wonderful to be inside and watch the torrential rain storms but less pleasant was the walk to school through the knee high flood waters. I really didn’t want to know what the things were wrapping round my ankles. Our house was flooded once but it took us about a week to deal with the aftermath. We have yet to see if the new area floods.

In November our house flooded - inside and out!
In November our house flooded – inside and out!

Shopping here is quite an experience and takes up far more of our time than it used to. We are not fans of spending weekends at shops and were getting our food delivered by TESCO in the UK. We do have some small western style supermarkets here, they are pricey but keep us stocked with Frosties and French fries. We are slowly branching out food-wise: our cafe over the road makes amazing iced coffee (cafe tak-dako tak-kok?) and there’s a street vendor outside the market who makes delicious marshmallow-filled crepe cones for 16p each. The fruit is fantastic: familiar favourites like mango, bananas, watermelon & coconuts are a few pence each, and we’ve acquired a taste for local specialities like longan (bark-wrapped lychees), rambutan (pink melon-flavoured conkers) and mangosteen (hard purple shell, segmented grape-like innards).

Squashes, watermelon, durian, mini aubergines, mangosteen, mangos, French beans, limes & pomegranate?
Squash, watermelon, durian, mini aubergines, mangosteen, mangos, French beans, limes & pomegranate?

John has tried Loklak (think spicy beef stew), and several fish amoks, Lauren’s had stir-fried tree ants, and we found a curry-house to rival anything in Bradford. Eating out is cheaper than the UK so we have indulged in that more often than usual.

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Our fellow teacher Mr Paul Evans, tucking into freshly made noodles at the Noodle Bar after church.
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Battered tofu – delicious!
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Tuesday lunchtimes we’re both off-timetable, so we head to the nearby eateries to try local cuisine.
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Lunch at ‘Barn Barn’ one Tuesday.


Language learning is slow, more to do with finding time than innate difficulty. We learnt greetings and numbers fairly easily, and can get by in the market if vendors speak slowly, but haven’t really progressed to verbs and general vocabulary. Now we have moved we need to find a local teacher and start learning formally.

John somehow got roped into taking a small part as a drunken Cockney playwright in the Christmas Pantomime “Will Shakespeare” with the Phnom Penh Players. Twice-weekly rehearsals at the ‘Three Mangos’ bar (Angkor beer $1/pint) culminated in three performances in mid-December. Apparently his acting was so accurate that many attendees thought he really was inebriated. Art imitating life?

John in the Christmas Panto.
John in the Christmas Panto.

Meanwhile our fellow August arrival Paul Evans-Prestige was hard at work on the school production ‘The HOPE Story’ which charted the history of the school from its early days with a handful of homeschooled children to the relocation to our new facilities in the less built-up north-west of the city in March 2015. Lauren helped paint the scenery, as a contribution to the C.A.S. part of her I.B., and Matt shifted scenery backstage. Tom sang a solo as one of “We Three Kings” in the Primary production ‘The Innkeeper’.

This coming semester all of us will be going on school camp. The whole school goes on camp in the same week, the youngest children spending a night camping at school with the older ones spending 4 nights at various remote locations. Each year group goes to a different camp with John joining Tom’s group to a traditional village where they will be taking gifts to the people there and helping the church in service tasks. Cath is taking her year 8 (UK year 9) form group to the mountain region in Mondulkiri in the north. She gets to sleep out in the woods in a hammock and go trekking with elephants!

So, a new house in a new area and half the school year done already. It has been a fast-paced time so far. We miss friends and family and green hills but also feel very happy and at home here. As we returned home from a meal out on Christmas Eve I wondered when driving my son on a motorbike through crazy traffic in an Asian capital city had become normal.

Prayer? If any of you can offer one up for us we appreciate prayer for:

Safety – traffic is one of the main causes of death here and our children cycle to school as it is too hot to walk. Motos are our main form of transport. Violence is a problem in certain areas and city centre protests are an area to avoid so we are careful where we go and when.

Health – we have all had a ridiculous number of mosquito bites and dengue fever is a real possibility in this area, many of the staff here have had it. It can have serious and long lasting effects and has no cure or vaccination. Infection in any wound is likely because of the environment we are in.

Purpose – we love our work but know we could easily be busy but not doing God’s purpose. We need to constantly keep focused on Him and listening to His voice.

Merry Christmas, and a God-centred New Year,

John, Cath, Lauren, Matt & Tom.

Chamkar Pring Amusements

We’d heard there was a large park two minutes from our new house, so headed off this afternoon to investigate.

It’s lovely! Lots of trees, covered walkways, lakes, and a range of funfair rides, though mid-afternoon on a weekday only the bumper cars were open.